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Started by Palehorse, September 19, 2006, 06:55:07 AM

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Sandy Eggo

Quote from: Dexter Morgan on August 09, 2007, 08:22:40 PM
I've never seen cats eyes get that big before.  :eek: The thing of it was when it happened, I was standing there tearing up bread for the coons, that eat out on our deck everynight. It didn't really seem all that bad, and all hell broke loose in the blink of an eye. There was no time to act. It was just a massive crack, a lightening flash, and cats running everywhere. Those cats were under the deck, before I even figured out what happened. Then I hurried up, and hauled ass inside, and the inside cats were crawling on their bellies across the floor, because they were to scared to get up and run. OMG it was total mayhem.  :rotfl: I think the reason for the loud cracking sound, was because I think lightening actually hit one of the 3 lightening rods on the house. So,it probably hit in a good spot.  :yes: :yes:

You remind me so much of a friend I had in college. She'd tell me these stories about things that happened to her and be totally serious. She'd have the strangest things happen and get into the funniest predicaments. I couldn't help but laugh. The whole time, I'm saying, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry, because I know that at the time "it" was happening to her, it wasn't funny, but somehow the way she told the story...did me in. :biggrin: I can totally picture the events above and I'm LMAO!
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

Sandy Eggo

Quote from: pariann on August 09, 2007, 07:54:23 PM
oh yeah, I get it. kinda like me telling 17 today that if she didn't shut her mouth, I was going to slap the shit out of her.  I completely understand the disrespect in disagreements.  Sometimes it happens.

(yeah yeah yeah, sometimes, reasoning just no longer works and you have to sailor talk a bit.)

Kinda, but I refuse to go to that level. Trust me, my tone of voice lets him know that he's on dangerous ground, but I don't raise my voice or meet his tone, ever. I think at some  point in time, he has gotten the impression all that chest beating is a good way to frazzle someone or get them to back off/down. When he sees that I'm not bothered (I am, but he doesn't see it) then he starts to back peddle and come to his senses. Like today. Suddenly he wants to go somewhere and guess who he wanted to give him a ride. :smile: Guess who holds the keys? and guess who's not going anywhere? Perhaps he'll remember  the next time that he raises his voice. We had a long talk about his behavior and attitude. We'll see if it works. :wink:
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

me

Good for you PIYA.  I know when my voice got real calm I stated things very distinctly and looked right into the kids eyes they knew mom had had it and they'd better shape up.  By the same token if they raised their voice at me I usually ignored them or just walked away until they could talk to me in a civil tone.  Didn't take too many times of that 'til they figured yelling wasn't going to get them squat with me....(Well, anything but grounded maybe). :biggrin:
Trump 2020

Locutus

The Internet is down at the hotel so I'm making a few posts on the blackberry before I go to bed.  :mad:
One of the gravest dangers to the survival of our republic is an ignorant electorate routinely feeding at the trough of propaganda.   -- Locutus

"We are all connected; To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe atomically."  -- Dr. Neil deGrasse Tyson

Sandy Eggo

Quote from: Locutus on August 10, 2007, 12:31:43 AM
The Internet is down at the hotel so I'm making a few posts on the blackberry before I go to bed.  :mad:

That certainly sucks. :yes:
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

pariann

I guess you just have to know my 17 year old. Good kid, but her mouth gets away with her. She had been mean to everyone for about an hour and I had had enough, and was informing her of such, and she told me to go away, leave the room, leave her alone.  Oh man, that's when I told her to shut her mouth. 

Remember, I'm stressed already, and babysitting 3 grandsons, while having my own 4 minors with me, staying at my daughters house until I figure out the utility situation.  Still trying to put in applications for jobs in between beating all the kids (just kidding) and cooking meals.   Sometimes, I just break and the teens get a taste of me sinking to that level.  It happens.
Looks like I've come full circle.

Dexter Morgan

Quote from: Locutus on August 10, 2007, 12:31:43 AM
The Internet is down at the hotel so I'm making a few posts on the blackberry before I go to bed.  :mad:
Man, I hate it when that happens.  :mad:
All that I am... all that I ever was... is here in your perfect eyes.... they're all I can see

~Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol~

Dexter Morgan

Quote from: pariann on August 10, 2007, 08:25:24 AM
I guess you just have to know my 17 year old. Good kid, but her mouth gets away with her. She had been mean to everyone for about an hour and I had had enough, and was informing her of such, and she told me to go away, leave the room, leave her alone.  Oh man, that's when I told her to shut her mouth. 

Remember, I'm stressed already, and babysitting 3 grandsons, while having my own 4 minors with me, staying at my daughters house until I figure out the utility situation.  Still trying to put in applications for jobs in between beating all the kids (just kidding) and cooking meals.   Sometimes, I just break and the teens get a taste of me sinking to that level.  It happens.
Don't feel bad Pariann, everybody has a breaking point. You've had a lot to deal with recently.  :yes:
All that I am... all that I ever was... is here in your perfect eyes.... they're all I can see

~Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol~

Dexter Morgan

Quote from: PIYA on August 09, 2007, 10:41:35 PM
You remind me so much of a friend I had in college. She'd tell me these stories about things that happened to her and be totally serious. She'd have the strangest things happen and get into the funniest predicaments. I couldn't help but laugh. The whole time, I'm saying, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry, because I know that at the time "it" was happening to her, it wasn't funny, but somehow the way she told the story...did me in. :biggrin: I can totally picture the events above and I'm LMAO!
In my life if there is anything that can go wrong it does. If it can be broken,crashed or wrecked in any way I'm there. It never ends for me LOL!!!It's like having a bad day every day LOL!!!! Atleast I can laugh about it tho.  :yes:
All that I am... all that I ever was... is here in your perfect eyes.... they're all I can see

~Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol~

Palehorse

Time tuh do muh rain dance!
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That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville

Sandy Eggo

Can you get SOP in on your dance too? We could use some rain. :biggrin:
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

Palehorse

Quote from: PIYA on September 25, 2007, 09:53:36 AM
Can you get SOP in on your dance too? We could use some rain. :biggrin:

Won't do you any good from Gitmo!  :wink: :smile:

(Might bring Cuba a hurricaine though!)  :biggrin:
R.I.P. - followsthewolf - You are MISSED! 4/17/2013

That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville

pariann

Looks like I've come full circle.

Sandy Eggo

Oh! Didn't know. Obviously he has recovered, that's a good thing. :yes:  Hummmm maybe you can show me some of your rain dance moves  :hamster: :rain1:
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

Palehorse

 :biggrin:

12 months of Cuba. . .No cell phone, no personal computer, no leave,. . . not a very nice thing to be staring you down. . .  :icon_evil:
R.I.P. - followsthewolf - You are MISSED! 4/17/2013

That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville