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Started by Locutus, January 30, 2013, 11:52:04 AM

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Sandy Eggo

You're right. I needed to blow off steam so I posted here ;D and now I can approach the other coaches and the clients and gently push them towards helping each other and themselves. :yes:

I think what set me off was the admonishment in the other coach's voice that sounded a lot like, " you don't know what this hiatus is doing to people." It irked me because she's a coach and therefore a total wellness resource (that includes fitness) yet it didn't occur to her to support/motivate her client herself.
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

Sandy Eggo

I'm over it :biggrin:

The bottom line is helping people. When we try new things were scared, we make excuses and we hesitate. I know this and need to be patient with the ones who are struggling or stepping outside that comfort zone. I also need to remember that they are developing a new lifestyle and may need nudges in the right direction to do it independently or start a group. I need to figure out the best way to do this and not lose focus because a couple are clingy. I've always had trouble with that in any capacity. So more personal development for me.


The lazy-ass coach can kiss mine :azz: :biggrin:
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

libby

I have been a loner all my life. Doesn't mean I've lived alone; means I gave up trying to change others or even start a new conversation; the reward is that once in a while I meet a kindred spirit and oh my  :happy:  I treasure those moments and those people. Maybe that's why I like this forum. Seems like some free spirits here.
All of life is a process of testing and initiation, always preparing for a higher level of consciousness -- and illumination. -- John Horn

Locutus

Quote from: libby on July 20, 2013, 12:28:34 PM
I have been a loner all my life. Doesn't mean I've lived alone; means I gave up trying to change others or even start a new conversation; the reward is that once in a while I meet a kindred spirit and oh my  :happy:  I treasure those moments and those people. Maybe that's why I like this forum. Seems like some free spirits here.

:ghost: :ghost: :ghost: :ghost:

:spooked:  ;D
One of the gravest dangers to the survival of our republic is an ignorant electorate routinely feeding at the trough of propaganda.   -- Locutus

"We are all connected; To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe atomically."  -- Dr. Neil deGrasse Tyson

Sandy Eggo

Quote from: libby on July 20, 2013, 12:28:34 PM
I have been a loner all my life. Doesn't mean I've lived alone; means I gave up trying to change others or even start a new conversation; the reward is that once in a while I meet a kindred spirit and oh my  :happy:  I treasure those moments and those people. Maybe that's why I like this forum. Seems like some free spirits here.

Actually, that pretty much describes me as well. This past couple years I've been experimenting with the boundaries of my comfort zone and I've made some significant and rewarding changes as a result. I ventured into wellness coaching knowing full well that I'd be uncomfortable. Not with people so much as learning too much about them. Honestly my frustration is probably more because I should have gone with my gut on this one. Perhaps this was an envelope that didn't need to be pushed. That said, I've already started the back step. I'll continue to help, but as I mentioned above...to a point and then let go. :)
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

libby

All of life is a process of testing and initiation, always preparing for a higher level of consciousness -- and illumination. -- John Horn

libby

Quote from: Sandy Eggo on July 21, 2013, 07:32:53 PM
Actually, that pretty much describes me as well. This past couple years I've been experimenting with the boundaries of my comfort zone and I've made some significant and rewarding changes as a result. I ventured into wellness coaching knowing full well that I'd be uncomfortable. Not with people so much as learning too much about them. Honestly my frustration is probably more because I should have gone with my gut on this one. Perhaps this was an envelope that didn't need to be pushed. That said, I've already started the back step. I'll continue to help, but as I mentioned above...to a point and then let go. :)
It took me a while to figure that out -- but when I did I found I was much happier on the path I had chosen.
All of life is a process of testing and initiation, always preparing for a higher level of consciousness -- and illumination. -- John Horn

Sandy Eggo

I can't stand it when people post something as fact without researching it's accuracy. I also can't stand it when people pair something without giving credit to the original source. :mad:
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

Palehorse

R.I.P. - followsthewolf - You are MISSED! 4/17/2013

That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville

Locutus

Anyone else think all of these gas price analysts who try and tell you where gas prices are heading don't have a fucking clue what they're talking about?
One of the gravest dangers to the survival of our republic is an ignorant electorate routinely feeding at the trough of propaganda.   -- Locutus

"We are all connected; To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe atomically."  -- Dr. Neil deGrasse Tyson

Henry Hawk

Quote from: Locutus on January 10, 2014, 12:59:52 PM
Anyone else think all of these gas price analysts who try and tell you where gas prices are heading don't have a fucking clue what they're talking about?

I agree, there is NO lgical rhyme or reason.....I wonder how much they get paid to make these analaysis'
"The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left."
Ecclesiastes 10:2 - It all makes sense to me now...


"The future ain't what it used to be."– Yogi Berra

"Square roots are rarely found on any plant." FTW

Locutus

They probably pull them out of their anal cavity.  :yes:
One of the gravest dangers to the survival of our republic is an ignorant electorate routinely feeding at the trough of propaganda.   -- Locutus

"We are all connected; To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe atomically."  -- Dr. Neil deGrasse Tyson

Henry Hawk

"The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left."
Ecclesiastes 10:2 - It all makes sense to me now...


"The future ain't what it used to be."– Yogi Berra

"Square roots are rarely found on any plant." FTW

Palehorse

The Colts better pull something out of their anal-cavity for this second half or they'll let Brady go play with Peyton. . . AGAIN!
R.I.P. - followsthewolf - You are MISSED! 4/17/2013

That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville

Palehorse

Time tuh do muh SNOW dance!

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R.I.P. - followsthewolf - You are MISSED! 4/17/2013

That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville