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Title: Dating
Post by: BEG on December 22, 2006, 12:12:22 PM
I was just asked out on a date. He wants to take me to Ruths Chris Steakhouse next week.
I've never blindly went out on a date like this. All of this is so new to me after being married for 20+ years. Wow, I'm just a little overwhelmed by it all and I love it.  :smile:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on December 22, 2006, 12:18:33 PM
Cool beans, BEG!!! GO!!!! Have a great time....if nothing else, you'll have a great dinner.  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on December 28, 2006, 12:55:40 PM
All I can say right now is "WOW"!!!!   :biggrin:  :smitten:  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: followsthewolf on December 28, 2006, 02:02:04 PM
Well, well, well.

Aren't we just the beaming one.


:biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on December 28, 2006, 02:11:35 PM
Quote from: followsthewolf on December 28, 2006, 02:02:04 PM
Well, well, well.

Aren't we just the beaming one.


:biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin:

I am guilty of beaming - LOLOLOL  :biggrin:
My cheeks are beginning to hurt from smiling so much.  :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: followsthewolf on December 28, 2006, 02:35:03 PM
Now, that can't be bad.

:biggrin: :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on December 28, 2006, 04:04:40 PM
Please tell me I played a part in this. :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on December 28, 2006, 04:19:17 PM
He is wonderful!!!!
We hit it off amazingly. I haven't laughed so much in a long time.  :biggrin:
He asked me to go with him on a trip out of town in a little over a month.  :yes:
I haven't been this giddy and happy in a long  time.  :smitten:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: ~Daisy~ on December 28, 2006, 04:26:52 PM
Quote from: BEG
I am guilty of beaming - LOLOLOL  :biggrin:
My cheeks are beginning to hurt from smiling so much.  :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin:

Isn't that just the greatest feeling when you can't get that smile off your face? I still vividly remember that part when I first started dating my husband. Friends would just say his name and  I'd erupt into  this huge $hiteatin' grin.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on December 28, 2006, 07:03:22 PM
Quote from: BEG on December 28, 2006, 04:19:17 PM
He is wonderful!!!!
We hit it off amazingly. I haven't laughed so much in a long time.  :biggrin:
He asked me to go with him on a trip out of town in a little over a month.  :yes:
I haven't been this giddy and happy in a long  time.  :smitten:

I'm so glad, and if he's going to wisconsin..I'm going with you LOL
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on December 29, 2006, 09:21:43 AM
Quote from: pariann on December 28, 2006, 07:03:22 PM
I'm so glad, and if he's going to wisconsin..I'm going with you LOL

Sorry, Pariann. He's taking me on a trip to the south.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on December 29, 2006, 03:00:38 PM
South, NICE, it should be a cruise. You would love it!!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: smokeykat on January 02, 2007, 06:53:03 PM
good for you....you deserve happiness in your life. You are a wonderful lady who has helped me tremendously.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on March 28, 2007, 03:47:33 PM
Well, I guess I'm going to be back in the dating scene. :eek:
I thought that Mr. Kokomo was my Mr. Right, but I'm not willing to be the second woman in his life.
I deserve better and I'm going to make sure that I get just exactly that.   :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Mr442 on March 29, 2007, 08:19:40 AM
Some guys are dogs, the rest of us are happily married to the first wife.

Sorry it didn't turn out well, but it's still too early for someone in your spot to jump into the deep end.  Take your time.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Henry Hawk on March 29, 2007, 09:45:12 AM
Quote from: BEG on March 28, 2007, 03:47:33 PM
Well, I guess I'm going to be back in the dating scene. :eek:
I thought that Mr. Kokomo was my Mr. Right, but I'm not willing to be the second woman in his life.
I deserve better and I'm going to make sure that I get just exactly that.   :yes:

I'm sorry things did not work out, but you have the right frame of mind, .... you Do deserve better!  :yes: ...and do not settle for anything less...
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2007, 09:56:23 AM
Thanks CWM.
I keep telling myself that things happen for a reason and let God guide me in my life.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Henry Hawk on March 29, 2007, 10:01:06 AM
Quote from: BEG on March 29, 2007, 09:56:23 AM
Thanks CWM.
I keep telling myself that things happen for a reason and let God guide me in my life.

It's hard to do sometimes, but you are correct... ;) :)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on March 30, 2007, 09:24:32 AM
Keep your chin up, BEG...doesn't sound like he deserved you.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2007, 09:28:25 AM
Thanks, Sunny!
I truly love this man. I just wish he loved me.  :'(
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on March 30, 2007, 09:29:42 AM
Maybe the timing just isn't right....

...you know what they say, if you love something..set it free...yada yada.... :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: smokeykat on March 31, 2007, 01:27:50 PM
Beg...you are a fun-loving, very nice gal....and if this guy didn't see that in you and love you just the way you are...then he wasn't the one for you.  You will find someone when you least expect it.  By the way.....we need to go out again sometime ...you missed the last meetup for Zimmy's birthday.....we all missed you.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 11, 2007, 03:14:24 PM
Well, against what I really want  :(, I'm venturing out again tonight.  :yes:
We are eating Mexican for dinner.  :beers:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 11, 2007, 04:28:27 PM
Lucky you.  I can't even begin to get a date. :(
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 11, 2007, 05:21:44 PM
Pariann - what happened to the young hottie? 

BEG - I'm in the same boat as you are I'm afraid.  Let's keep each other motivated to stay in the game!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 11, 2007, 05:45:09 PM
read the venting thread.....and he just doesn't take me anywhere. Not even for a walk.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 11, 2007, 09:11:55 PM
Kick his arse!   >:(
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 11, 2007, 09:59:26 PM
I don't have the energy.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 11, 2007, 10:02:41 PM
Get the kids to do it! haha  ;D
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 11, 2007, 10:03:23 PM
They all like him, he's never an ass to them.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 11, 2007, 10:40:31 PM
Date is over. We had a nice evening. He's not a bad kisser, but.....  :lipsrsealed2:
Oh well, it wasn't a complete disaster.   :-\
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: ~Daisy~ on April 12, 2007, 12:06:15 PM
same guy? different guy?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 12, 2007, 12:20:21 PM
New guy, Daisy. This is Mr. Fishers. I met him on-line recently.
Mr. Kokomo needs some time and spcae. He's confused about what he really wants.
Anyway he pushed me away and I said 'Fine. I'm no ones chopped liver!!!'  :mad:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: ~Daisy~ on April 12, 2007, 12:27:44 PM
Ahhhh...Tell him to take you to India Sizzling. The best restaurant in Fishers.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 16, 2007, 08:35:51 AM
Okay I'm just about to give up. I've had 3 men recently tell me that I deserve better and should be pampered and that I could have any man that I want. WTF!!!  :eek:  Shouldn't I have a say in this!?!?!  :mad:
I am so frustrated. Do I need to be an ass when dating a guy? Why are all the men that I date pushing me away???  :confused:
This really sucks!  :'(
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 16, 2007, 08:45:46 AM
Hint: View every date as nothing more than a friendship. Let them work harder to make it more.

And no you shouldn't have a say in what the men want.  If you are not the ideal that they are looking for, make a new friend.  And I have an idea that men say that stuff to you so it makes them look like they are doing you a favor and not hurting your feelings.  But so many men don't understand women they don't KNOW what will hurt our feelings.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: ~Daisy~ on April 16, 2007, 10:59:40 AM
When I met Aaron, I wasn't looking for a boyfriend or a husband. I was tired of the relationship scene, from having left one long term relationship I'd entered after my first marriage. I was dating but not seriously, and for the most part, I was just calling it my "slut stage."

Anyway, I figure that you'll find your soul mate when you aren't looking so hard for him.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 16, 2007, 03:23:08 PM
Well, I'm not looking for something serious, but the guys are acting like they are then they run away. It's a heck of a game - push, pull, push, pull.  :-\
I'm just gonna keep looking for someone that wants to spend time with me without looking so far into the future. All I want right now is to have fun this summer. That's it - plain and simple FUN!  :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: ~Daisy~ on April 16, 2007, 04:11:13 PM
Sounds like you just found out first hand what mind-games men can play!!  :rant:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 17, 2007, 03:38:43 PM
Yep, but I've decided to play too.
I'm meeting Mr. Fishers again tonight for dinner.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 17, 2007, 03:57:36 PM
Dating is such a hassle.  Why bother?


I am just gonna sign up for that bachelor show, and get me a rose, a mansion to live in for a couple of weeks and a swim.  Heck with the bachelor, though, I am looking at the producer/director guy.

anyone wanna come with?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 17, 2007, 04:17:29 PM
~CC raises her hand~
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 17, 2007, 04:36:36 PM
me too! me too!!!  :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 17, 2007, 10:17:13 PM
I'm in for the all you can drink champagne!  :biggrin:  Screw the rose!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 18, 2007, 07:56:13 AM
Quote from: kimmi on April 17, 2007, 10:17:13 PM
I'm in for the all you can drink champagne!  :biggrin:  Screw the rose!

Heck yeah!!!  :thumbsup: :food5:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 18, 2007, 02:52:59 PM
Pack your bags.


ROAD TRIP
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 18, 2007, 03:05:50 PM
Is this a girl's only trip?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 18, 2007, 03:07:23 PM
of course it is..unless you really WANT a guy
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 18, 2007, 03:08:22 PM
We could use one in case of  a flat tire.  Or if some one needs to kill a spider.

Who has the biggest trunk?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 18, 2007, 03:08:50 PM
Quoteof course it is..unless you really WANT a guy

There is a lot of that going around.

But, that really doesn't do much for me....

I do like champagne, though.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 18, 2007, 03:09:26 PM
Quote from: damfast on April 18, 2007, 03:08:22 PM
We could use one in case of  a flat tire.  Or if some one needs to kill a spider.

Who has the biggest trunk?

Oh my. Were you planning on riding in the trunk with me?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 18, 2007, 03:10:34 PM
do you cuddle
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 18, 2007, 03:12:39 PM
I don't think there'd be much choice in a truck. A lot of spooning.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 18, 2007, 03:14:10 PM
naw..no men...

I can kill a spider and my dad taught me long ago how to change a flat
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 18, 2007, 03:19:40 PM
but, can you do it with panache?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 18, 2007, 03:20:20 PM
nah, you use a jack
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 18, 2007, 03:21:47 PM
I'll just stay in the trunk with you until then.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 18, 2007, 03:24:35 PM
I'm going to step aside here...damfast can volley for me for a bit.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 18, 2007, 05:12:37 PM
Sorry Fireguy!  If you have panache then I don't want to compete with you.  I'm in it to win it!  I'm kicking butt and taking names!  I've got my game face on! You will be eliminated the first night!  I'll steal your rose if I have to!

**Thank God Pariann can change a tire!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 18, 2007, 05:25:55 PM
:biggrin: My parents taught me to be self sufficient, and I will try and try until I absolutely fail and have to ask for help.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 18, 2007, 09:41:40 PM
Just bring some drinks to the trunk then.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sandy Eggo on April 19, 2007, 07:17:31 AM
OMG this thread is so funny! You guys are great. I'm LMAO at the thought of opening your trunk and here's this guy (http://theunknownzone.us/smf/index.php?action=dlattach;attach=275;type=avatar) with a grin and a bottle of champagne.  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 07:32:12 AM
I think we can all agree that the Clown can Throw Down.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 07:32:44 AM
Quote from: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 07:32:12 AM
I think we can all agree that the Clown can Thrown Down.
Thrown?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 07:34:25 AM
I have no idea what you are talking about. You must still be sleepy.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 07:38:44 AM
Fixing a typo doesn't mean it didn't exist.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 07:40:44 AM
sorry...too much champagne
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 08:03:50 AM
That'll learn ya. :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 19, 2007, 09:07:00 AM
*tips the bottle up, takes a deep drink, swallows and leans on Pariann to stand up straight*
fireguy beckons, and damfast staggers to the trunk, bottle in hand.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 09:09:27 AM
I wouldn't do that if I were you.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sandy Eggo on April 19, 2007, 09:11:47 AM
Must be the green hair... :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 09:13:24 AM
Quote from: pariann on April 19, 2007, 09:09:27 AM
I wouldn't do that if I were you.

Quiet, you.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 09:14:59 AM
I'm staking out my territory, the women are with me. :mad:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 09:26:01 AM
You can have the whole rest of the car--we just need the trunk!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 09:28:13 AM
~CC fills the trunk with stink bugs~

There seems to be some part of "no men" that you don't understand.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 09:30:59 AM
I'm just respectfully offering an alternative.  :)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 09:33:34 AM
I'm not even going to say what initially popped into my head, you already think I'm being snippy with you today.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 09:41:07 AM
Oh, you are.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 19, 2007, 10:42:23 AM
I hate to interupt all of this fun, but I have a picture of Mr. Fishers, if anyone is interested..... anyone?  :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 10:58:38 AM
yes..but he's not going with us :mad:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 19, 2007, 11:03:56 AM
Crap! I forgot how to import (or whatever you call it) a pic.  :rant:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 19, 2007, 11:56:19 AM
well show us the photo, maybe that will keep fireguy intersted long enough for pariann to help me lift his wallet
(gas money)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 11:57:28 AM
full posting edit window, then you need a url link to the picture from another site.  Then you click on the picture icon and place the url between the img and /img codes
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 11:58:57 AM
Quote from: damfast on April 19, 2007, 11:56:19 AM
well show us the photo, maybe that will keep fireguy intersted long enough for pariann to help me lift his wallet
(gas money)

You are in for a bitter disappointment. I spent my last $2 on doughnuts this morning.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 12:03:00 PM
You been on 53rd street again?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 12:06:10 PM
Nope. Good's this morning.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 12:13:30 PM
Do they have better donuts?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 19, 2007, 12:15:30 PM
(http://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s283/nat3392/t1174235465.jpg)
Here's Mr. Fishers
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 12:22:21 PM
Looks okay..not as good as Mr Kokomo though.  Of course, Mr Kokomo looked better in person than on his picture, so this could be another case of that.  Though it's a good thing we are more interested in the person than the looks, right. :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 12:38:06 PM
Quote from: pariann on April 19, 2007, 12:13:30 PM
Do they have better donuts?


Yes, but they run out quick. You have to get there early.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 19, 2007, 12:39:23 PM
Yeah, Mr Fishers isn't drop dead sexy, but he's so much more handsome on the inside than Mr. Kokomo is right now. Mr. Kokomo is just ugly on the inside.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 12:40:01 PM
Well, you know what they say: beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clear to the bone...
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 12:43:47 PM
Quote from: BEG on April 19, 2007, 12:39:23 PM
Yeah, Mr Fishers isn't drop dead sexy, but he's so much more handsome on the inside than Mr. Kokomo is right now. Mr. Kokomo is just ugly on the inside.

Uh Oh, Have I missed something over the last few days?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 12:45:13 PM
Quote from: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 12:38:06 PM
Yes, but they run out quick. You have to get there early.

I never get anywhere early.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 12:46:54 PM
Well, no Good's for you then! (at least at the Pendleton location. I don't know much about the one up North)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 12:59:25 PM
I never get anything Good. :(
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 19, 2007, 01:36:40 PM
Maybe you just aren't looking in a Good spot.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 19, 2007, 02:19:44 PM
shoves pariann out of the way and takes the Good spot.

BTW, Mr. Fisher isn't ugly.  I've seen worse.
Besides, I would rather have ugly and good tempered any day.

Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 19, 2007, 02:27:05 PM
who said he was ugly?

And geez, first you bitch at fireguy for holding my spot, now you are shoving me, what's up??
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: damfast on April 19, 2007, 02:27:45 PM
LMAO,

sorry

will try to stop giggling now
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 19, 2007, 04:49:28 PM
Quote from: BEG on April 19, 2007, 12:15:30 PM
(http://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s283/nat3392/t1174235465.jpg)
Here's Mr. Fishers

You ladies aren't giving those dimples enough credit.

Keep us posted, BEG...and in the meantime, we'll watch the ladies drool over the Bachelor. ;D
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 20, 2007, 07:20:17 AM
Fireguy!  I now remember the reason why you can't go in the trunk!  Where am I going to put my suitcase of shoes?  The duffle bag of accessories?  or my large suitcase with my evening gowns?  Sorry friend, you'll have to sit on the roof like dead grandma in National Lampoons! 

WALLY WORLD HERE WE COME!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 20, 2007, 08:20:41 AM
He can't go in the trunk because I said no men!!  Hasn't anyone noticed that what Y and I say around here, goes?? :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 20, 2007, 08:24:54 AM
No, I haven't really noticed that at all......strange....
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Henry Hawk on April 20, 2007, 08:26:49 AM
any room for a cute little red-tailed, happy go lucky, yellow shirted, chicken hawk??? :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 20, 2007, 08:28:21 AM
Not in the drunk-trunk with damfast and I , there isn't. Check the glove compartment.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 20, 2007, 08:45:01 AM
pfft..the only males that better be hitching rides, had better be the spiders I might have to KILL!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 20, 2007, 09:44:42 AM
Quote from: Sunny on April 19, 2007, 04:49:28 PM
You ladies aren't giving those dimples enough credit.

Keep us posted, BEG...and in the meantime, we'll watch the ladies drool over the Bachelor. ;D

I will keep you posted. We are going out again Saturday evening.  :smile:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 20, 2007, 09:45:19 AM
Quote from: Henry Hawk on April 20, 2007, 08:26:49 AM
any room for a cute little red-tailed, happy go lucky, yellow shirted, chicken hawk??? :yes:

There's always room for you!  :yes: :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 20, 2007, 10:17:38 AM
hmmmm....I said no. Don't you realize? He's a peeping CWM. Just because he changed his name and look, he's still a man, who wants to drag along a man to find an eligible bachelor?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 20, 2007, 10:36:10 AM
Well, I for one need him in my pocket just for a sounding board.... kind of like my Jiminy Cricket - LOL  :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 20, 2007, 10:47:43 AM
Just keep him in your pocket. The only men I want to see, are the one's paraded before my eyes that I can actually choose from.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 20, 2007, 10:50:19 AM
I'll be in the trunk, so you won't have to see me. Perfect. Problem solved.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 20, 2007, 10:56:10 AM
But I can smell you.  You have that ....uhm....man smell.  It's very difficult to mistake.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on April 20, 2007, 11:02:14 AM
Oh, you love it.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 20, 2007, 11:52:32 AM
maybe
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 21, 2007, 08:08:30 AM
Quote from: BEG on April 20, 2007, 10:36:10 AM
Well, I for one need him in my pocket just for a sounding board.... kind of like my Jiminy Cricket - LOL  :wink:

That is what B.O.B. is for!   :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 21, 2007, 12:26:12 PM
Who is B.O.B. ?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 21, 2007, 04:05:07 PM
Battery
Operated
Boyfriend
:eek:
:biggrin:
:smitten:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 21, 2007, 04:57:45 PM
oh those things.....pffft...you can keep em.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 21, 2007, 07:12:29 PM
My pleasure!  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 23, 2007, 03:43:20 PM
Quote from: BEG on April 20, 2007, 09:44:42 AM
I will keep you posted. We are going out again Saturday evening.  :smile:

We had another very nice date this weekend. He's a really nice guy. We are both guarded and don't want to get hurt again. I think that we are taking it at a nice pace...nothing too fast. We are just spending hours talking to each other and sharing our past and our future dreams with each other.
My only problem is that I don't think I fit in his world. I'm not at all like the ladies that are from the world in which he lives in. I feel like he's going beneath his status by dating me. He told me last night that I was being silly by even thinking that - but that's what I think and feel. He said that he wouldn't be with me if he wanted to be with a lady that had lesser qualities. Now that made me feel nice!  :yes:
So it's still all good!  :smile:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 23, 2007, 04:24:51 PM
Cool, BEG.

Sounds like he's got your number...and no, he wouldn't be with you if he didn't think you were a confident woman.

The person that feels you don't fit in his world is yourself.

Gotta believe in you, lady.  ;) :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 23, 2007, 04:58:27 PM
Feeling like BEG does is what keeps me from going out on dates with most of the men I meet.   Oh and Jason too, he would be such a 3rd wheel if I tried.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 25, 2007, 08:13:40 AM
Well, Mr. Fishers wants to come up to see me again tonight. I told him that we could go to the local rootbeer/hotdog stand for a dinner. He said 'ok'.
Alright this is gonna be the weirdest thing - sitting in his Lexus eating a hot dog and having a rootbeer. Maybe after tonight he'll realize what I'm talking about?!?! And then maybe not.  :confused:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 25, 2007, 04:30:37 PM
some people call stuff like that slumming. LOL :wink:  I'm just kidding.  I would love to be sitting in a car with someone eating a hot dog and having a root beer.  I've just found out I can pretty much go out with whoever I want, and there will be no third wheel.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 25, 2007, 04:32:25 PM
I've done worse in a Lexus. :o



(did I just say that out loud?) :redface:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 25, 2007, 04:39:34 PM
I bet you have actually done "better"  LOL
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 25, 2007, 04:50:26 PM
Quote from: pariann on April 25, 2007, 04:30:37 PM
some people call stuff like that slumming. LOL :wink:  I'm just kidding.  I would love to be sitting in a car with someone eating a hot dog and having a root beer.  I've just found out I can pretty much go out with whoever I want, and there will be no third wheel.

That's exactly what I told him on Sunday.... I told him he was slumming and needed to get back to Fishers. He said that he likes what is in Anderson. So, we'll see...... I guess.  :biggrin:

Anyway, sorry to read that you're able to go out without the 3rd wheel. btw... there's an available guy in Kokomo  who is looking to rescue a damsel in distress, IMO - not that you fit that cliche but he might think that you are. Dunno what he thinks anymore.... UGH!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 25, 2007, 04:55:32 PM
No thanks.  I like him as a friend and nothing more.  I had my chance, remember? 
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 25, 2007, 04:57:28 PM
Quote from: pariann on April 25, 2007, 04:55:32 PM
No thanks.  I like him as a friend and nothing more.  I had my chance, remember? 

I know, but second time around might just do it for ya.....
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on April 25, 2007, 04:59:59 PM
doubtful.  I don't think I want to date anyone at all. Going back to where I was this time last year.  Just focus on me and the kids.  Life can still be good without a man in it.  My mom's been doing it for years.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 27, 2007, 10:24:43 AM
We (Mr Fishers & I) had another very nice date last night. We went out for wings and a pitcher of beer.  :food4:  We went back to my place and watched TV and talked. We have alot more in common than I thought.
He just called me and thanked me for the wonderful evening and asked me if I'd like to go out tonight. :biggrin:  So, tonight I'm headed to Fishers to meet him for a date.
Dating him is really nice. We laugh and cut-up like we are teenagers.  :dizzy2:  :rotfl: Maybe that's because we both have teenagers - LOL
I'm looking forward to a very nice weekend with him and meeting his kids on Sunday!  :smile:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 27, 2007, 02:04:47 PM
Very nice BEG!  Good for you! 

My ex emailed and wanted to "do something" this weekend.  Um let me see...yeah I'm busy washing my hair!  Sunny - this is the ex you know!   :rant:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Palehorse on April 27, 2007, 02:49:53 PM
Don't discount the fact he likes what is Anderson, because I do too. So much so my wife and I decided to build our new home in Anderson! We could have easily gone to Fishers or Carmel and built, but we (I) like it here too!  :yes:
Every city/community that survives the long-haul goes through changes. Anderson is in the midst of changing. It upsets some folks, and others find it encouraging and exciting; you either roll with the changes and embrace them, or get run over by them. Your choice. . . :smile:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 27, 2007, 03:49:34 PM
Quote from: Palehorse on April 27, 2007, 02:49:53 PM
Don't discount the fact he likes what is Anderson, because I do too.

I think he was talking about me when he said he likes what Anderson has! :wink: :biggrin:  :razz:  LOL
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 09:12:17 AM
Quote from: kimmi on April 27, 2007, 02:04:47 PM
Very nice BEG!  Good for you! 

My ex emailed and wanted to "do something" this weekend.  Um let me see...yeah I'm busy washing my hair!  Sunny - this is the ex you know!   :rant:

Wow..doesn't he have some nerve. :rolleyes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 09:12:49 AM
Sounds like you're on a roll, BEG...glad to hear it! :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 09:13:28 AM
Yeah because apparently I'm just supposed to forget about the entire year of 2001.   :rant:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 09:14:45 AM
Yeah...forgetta bout the house...the dog...and the heart attack. :rolleyes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 09:23:38 AM
The wedding, my spent inheritence, the dress hanging in my damn closet, the cheating...  :rant:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 09:25:04 AM
No need to go on...just get a pedicure instead. :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 09:35:44 AM
If I could afford one today, I would!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sandy Eggo on April 28, 2007, 09:35:54 AM
Sounds like a real heel!  :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 09:37:16 AM
Maybe not as fun, but just pamper yourself at home...get out some lotion, soak your feet & re-paint your toenails.

Heck, I may even join you in the endeavor! :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 11:22:30 AM
Well I'll be doing gardent therapy today.  A good mud mask for the hands is always therapy for me!  I might even make freezer jam today if I get real ambitious!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 12:04:30 PM
Ummm....I didn't realize you were so....domesticated. :razz:

Hey, we'll be planting seeds soon. Wanna help?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 04:51:41 PM
Sure!  Go to Home Depot and get some sod packs and start those seeds now!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 05:37:03 PM
Huh? What are those for? :confused:

DH used to be a farmer...I'm leaving the planting up to him! :yes: :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 05:44:43 PM
To start your seedlings indoors.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 05:50:40 PM
Oh, okay! Well, maybe we should make a trip to Home Depot. Do those work for things like tomatoes & cucumbers?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 05:51:12 PM
And a quick  :sm69: apology to BEG. We can move this to Sunny's Shine if you'd like!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 06:01:30 PM
Quote from: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 05:50:40 PM
Oh, okay! Well, maybe we should make a trip to Home Depot. Do those work for things like tomatoes & cucumbers?

Yep! You will find them right by the seeds.

Okay now for your regularly scheduled programming!


I NEED A DATE!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 06:06:53 PM
Hey, I've heard you can find those at Home Depot, too...

Just a thought! :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 28, 2007, 09:35:33 PM
Quote from: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 05:51:12 PM
And a quick  :sm69: apology to BEG. We can move this to Sunny's Shine if you'd like!

No problem... I've enjoyed reading your gals conversation.  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on April 28, 2007, 11:50:16 PM
Quote from: Sunny on April 28, 2007, 06:06:53 PM
Hey, I've heard you can find those at Home Depot, too...

Just a thought! :biggrin:

Sweet!  I have to go back tomorrow and buy a lawn mower!  :smitten:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 29, 2007, 09:11:17 AM
Thanks, BEG!

And pick one up for me while you're there, kimmi! (a lawn mower, that is) :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 30, 2007, 08:17:37 AM
Yesterday was a great day for me and Mr. Fishers!
We went for a ride in his 1978 Indy pace car corvette. We took a walk in a park enjoying the wonderful weather. We then met his kids and went out for pizza. Then went to his mom and stepdad's house and watched a movie. Before I knew it, it was 10:30 and I had a drive ahead of me to get to my apartment.  Time flies when I'm with him. I think that's a sign that I really enjoy his company.  :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on April 30, 2007, 08:30:37 AM
Cool! So fill us in on how the "met the kids" went. :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on April 30, 2007, 09:07:50 AM
When we pulled up from our ride, they were waiting on us in his daughter's car. So here I was literally struggling to get out of the lowest riding 'vette you can imagine. LOL :rotfl:
He introduced us and then we cleaned out the back of his Lexus SUV :eek: so they would have plenty of room. We then hopped in and headed towards UNOs Pizza.
Mr. Fishers has told me more about his daughter than his son so I talked to her about her prom dress, graduation, etc. We hit a topic that had all of us conversing for a long time - amusement parks and roller coasters. Then we talked about music and such. The time went by qucikly with hardly any akward silent moments. It was very nice.  :smile:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on May 07, 2007, 10:25:41 AM
This weekend was really nice. Saturday was Mr. Fishers' birthday. We went to Texas Roadhouse for dinner. We saw Bratalie there and said 'hi!' to her and her date.
Sunday we picked up his son and went to his step dad & mom's house for dinner and of course cake and ice cream. YUM!  :heart:

Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on May 07, 2007, 09:17:04 PM
Maybe I love dating cause of the food! haha Now I know why I miss dating!  :smitten:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on May 07, 2007, 10:37:36 PM
pffft, Jason's idea of going out is running to McDonalds or Taco Bell, hitting the drive thru and bringing it back home.   I gotta find me a real date somewhere.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on May 11, 2007, 01:06:38 PM
We took Lil BEG out to Garfield's last night then rented and watched 'Invincible'. It was a very nice evening.  :smile:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on May 26, 2007, 11:10:04 AM
I'm having a wonderful time dating Mr. Fishers. No pressure, no outside stuff. It's just him and I acting like we are in our late 20's again.  :yes: :bliss:
It is a wonderful relationship and I don't think I could be happier!!!!  :biggrin:  :sun:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on May 26, 2007, 11:20:00 AM
That post deserves a  :bliss: (http://i131.photobucket.com/albums/p291/elcsea/Emoticons/S_THUM11.gif)(http://i131.photobucket.com/albums/p291/elcsea/Emoticons/whoo2.gif)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: smokeykat on May 26, 2007, 05:01:03 PM
I second that

:meow:

Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on May 29, 2007, 09:13:11 AM
Thank you all for being so supportive of me as I go through this season in life.  :smile: :bliss:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on May 29, 2007, 08:17:36 PM
That's what friends do...even if it's strictly virutal. :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on June 01, 2007, 09:09:25 AM
Well, Mr. Fishers and I met 2 months ago today - yep an April Fools date, but it's been anything but an April Fool's joke.  He called and told me this morning that the past 2 months have been the most wonderful months that he has lived in a long, long time and it's all because of me!  :smitten:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: ~Daisy~ on June 01, 2007, 09:31:17 AM
Congrats!

Has he taken you to Bella Vita or India Sizzling yet?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on June 07, 2007, 08:27:12 AM
No, we haven't been to those restaurants yet.

Tonight is golf date #1. We'll see how well this goes. He says that he won't be upset if I beat him. I guess I'll find out.  :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on June 07, 2007, 09:20:21 AM
Where is the golf outing?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on June 07, 2007, 09:29:14 AM
Grandview in Anderson
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: fireguy on June 07, 2007, 09:33:32 AM
Ahhh, Grandview.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: smokeykat on June 07, 2007, 10:56:09 PM
so how did the golf date go?  Who won?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on June 08, 2007, 08:04:51 AM
The date was great! It was hot and very, very windy.  We had a blast and I won by one stroke!!!  :biggrin: :clap: 
Neither one of us played well, but we did get a little distracted smoching on the course.  :love:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on June 08, 2007, 09:35:53 AM
Public displays of affection. ICKY!   LOL  j/k
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on July 06, 2007, 11:36:37 AM
So how are things going in the dating arena these days?
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on July 06, 2007, 12:18:06 PM
Mr. Fishers and I are still dating. :smitten:  He told me that he missed me terribly when I was in Fla. on vacation, but it's not like we didn't talk on the phone or anything. I think it bothered him knowing that I wasn't just 35 mins away, if he wanted to see me. So we are doing pretty nicely.  :biggrin:  We are both taking it s-l-o-w. Neither one of us want to get hurt or hurt the other either.  :no:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on July 06, 2007, 01:17:30 PM
Oh, I thought maybe you went on vacation with Mr. Fishers.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on July 06, 2007, 02:14:21 PM
Quote from: Sunny on July 06, 2007, 01:17:30 PM
Oh, I thought maybe you went on vacation with Mr. Fishers.


Oh nooooo....  :no: this was a man-free vacation!!!!  Just me, Lil BEG and one of her friends. :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sunny on July 15, 2007, 08:41:30 AM
Quote from: BEG on July 06, 2007, 02:14:21 PM
Oh nooooo....  :no: this was a man-free vacation!!!!  Just me, Lil BEG and one of her friends. :biggrin:

That sounds absolutely divine!!! I look forward to the days when I can take the girls & "relax" somewhere. :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sandy Eggo on July 15, 2007, 11:05:36 AM
The closest thing to a trip my daughter and I have taken alone was Vegas and it was totally so much fun! My son and I went to Florida alone once and it was fun too, but something about hanging out with the girls. Even when they're young.

There's a concert coming up, it'll be lil' Mojo's 1st concert ever and we are going with a friend of mine, and her two daughters.  GNO! :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: tallulahdahling on July 15, 2007, 08:05:29 PM
Oh her FIRST concert!  How KEWL!  My first concert was Aerosmith--the Rocks tour.  I won tix from a radio station and had to lie to the folks that I was babysitting cuz they never would have let me go!
You're a very awesome mom to let her go and go with!

:rock:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on July 16, 2007, 11:02:28 AM
Quote from: PIYA on July 15, 2007, 11:05:36 AM
The closest thing to a trip my daughter and I have taken alone was Vegas and it was totally so much fun! My son and I went to Florida alone once and it was fun too, but something about hanging out with the girls. Even when they're young.

There's a concert coming up, it'll be lil' Mojo's 1st concert ever and we are going with a friend of mine, and her two daughters.  GNO! :biggrin:

I'll never forget Lil BEG's first concert with me - it was Shaina Twain. Lil BEG was about 8-ish (so it's been about 7 yrs or so) It was great!! We both sang and watched her perform. It was the best.   :biggrin:

That same summer her dad took her to see Spice Girls. She loved that concert just as much. He was driving to the venue (without her knowing) and she said, "Daddy, that's where we saw Shania. I wish we could go see Spice Girls." Then he got off at the exit and he said her little face was priceless.
One thing is for sure, he may have not been the best husband, but he's the best dad a little girl could ever have. She's one lucky girl.  :yes:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on July 23, 2007, 01:30:32 PM
I had a great date yesterday. Mr Fishers took me to see the Indpls Indians at Victory Field. It was a picture perfect afternoon. I had never been to 'the Vic' but always wanted to go. We had a blast despite the Indians getting beat 1-13.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on August 03, 2007, 08:35:24 AM
Mr. Fishers & I had an interesting dinner last night. We were asked out to P.F. Changs by his mom and step-dad (the millionaires). We then met up with a President of a bank that Mr. Fishers' step-dad does business with (and so do I!) and his date, whose dad owns a restaurant chain in Indy. So, it was a scoial and business dinner.
I felt like Julia Roberts in 'Pretty Woman' not knowing what was proper and what wasn't. Thank God I didn't have to debate on which fork to use. LOL  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on August 04, 2007, 09:58:35 AM
Quote from: BEG on July 23, 2007, 01:30:32 PM
I had a great date yesterday. Mr Fishers took me to see the Indpls Indians at Victory Field. It was a picture perfect afternoon. I had never been to 'the Vic' but always wanted to go. We had a blast despite the Indians getting beat 1-13.

They just beat our Durham Bulls this week up there I heard on the news.  I thought of you guys when I saw the score!!! 
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on August 13, 2007, 08:37:24 AM
Mr Fisher's and I had another wonderful weekend.  :love:
I went with him to the KY Speedway, where he's a staff photographer. We shot (yep, they gave me a camera too - lol) practice and qualifying Friday and the the pre-race and race on Saturday. It was hot  :sweatdrop: but it didn't seem to matter. We were having a great time.  :smitten:
Yesterday after dinner (I made him my famous spaghetti  :eat: - which he dearly loves) he gave me a key to his condo. He told me that I welcome there anytime. Wasn't that sweet? And no :no: , I am not moving him with him. We are going to keep separate for a longer time.  :smile:
Now I have a question.... do I or should I have a key made to my apartment for him? I think that's the right thing to do. I told him a while ago that he's more than welcome to come over anytime he wants. Hmmmm
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on August 13, 2007, 10:05:04 AM
Maybe not a good idea with a teenage daughter.  You wouldn't want him to walk in on her accidently when she thinks she's completely home alone.  Could cause some embarrassment on both sides.  My thinking though, because I have a bunch of girls.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: tallulahdahling on August 28, 2007, 09:07:26 AM
I would discuss it with your daughter and see how she feels about it.  Remember, it's her home too.
And then you make the decision based on your level of comfort.  Good luck!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on August 28, 2007, 10:02:41 PM
Well I'm back on Match.  I need some dating practice.  I have just told a guy that he was pushy and I didn't feel comfortable with him pushing me to call him.  Take a chill pill buddy.  I'll call you if I want and when I want!  Damn!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: kimmi on September 01, 2007, 11:38:37 AM
I had a date last night.  It went great.  We are going out again but haven't firmed up the date.  I'm very excited.  He was very nice, owns his own place, has a job!  I'm a little smitten right now!  :smitten:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sandy Eggo on September 01, 2007, 01:29:26 PM
Kimmi that's awesome news! Keep us updated ;D
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on September 04, 2007, 08:27:47 AM
Quote from: kimmi on September 01, 2007, 11:38:37 AM
I had a date last night.  It went great.  We are going out again but haven't firmed up the date.  I'm very excited.  He was very nice, owns his own place, has a job!  I'm a little smitten right now!  :smitten:

YAY!!!  :clap:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on September 06, 2007, 10:10:37 AM
I've had a couple of dates myself over the last couple of days. :)  probably won't get another date until about Christmas time though. :(
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: tallulahdahling on September 09, 2007, 10:06:00 AM
A friend of mine is doing E-Harmony.  She is getting quite a few "quality" dates--so far no freaks!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on October 01, 2007, 11:02:18 AM
Yesterday we had a great date. We decided to introduce our kids to one another (Mr. Fishers has an 18 yr old girl and a 15 yr old boy and Lil BEG is 15). So, instead of sitting across a table from one another and struggle with conversation, we went to Turkey Run State Park and hiked 2 rugged trails. The kids got along really well. When we started the trails, it was like a Discovery Zone for teenagers. LOL They took off climbing and going the most difficult ways. It was soooo much fun and Mr Fishers and I couldn't be happier.  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on October 01, 2007, 11:13:16 AM
The kids hadn't met yet?  Wow, that sure seems like a long time coming.  But what do I know....I'm not even dating. LOL
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: BEG on October 01, 2007, 01:02:00 PM
Oh, no. I had met his kids and he had met Lil BEG but the kids hadn't met each other yet.
He was nervous about it for some odd reason....probably because he figured his son would get a crush on Lil BEG - LOL  :wink:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: pariann on October 01, 2007, 08:27:37 PM
that's what  I was saying..the kids hadn't met.  I met my 'ex' stepmothers kids the first time I met her.  I think it made things easier in the long run.  There was someone else to keep us occupied instead of focusing on this strange woman my dad was seeing.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: AnimalGuy on October 02, 2007, 05:17:14 PM
I hear that I aint been on a date in a long time. lol  Glad yall are finding good dates  ;D