Dating

[kimmi]

My pleasure! 

[BEG]

I will keep you posted. We are going out again Saturday evening. 

We had another very nice date this weekend. He's a really nice guy. We are both guarded and don't want to get hurt again. I think that we are taking it at a nice pace...nothing too fast. We are just spending hours talking to each other and sharing our past and our future dreams with each other.
My only problem is that I don't think I fit in his world. I'm not at all like the ladies that are from the world in which he lives in. I feel like he's going beneath his status by dating me. He told me last night that I was being silly by even thinking that - but that's what I think and feel. He said that he wouldn't be with me if he wanted to be with a lady that had lesser qualities. Now that made me feel nice! 
So it's still all good! 

[Sunny]

Cool, BEG.

Sounds like he's got your number...and no, he wouldn't be with you if he didn't think you were a confident woman.

The person that feels you don't fit in his world is yourself.

Gotta believe in you, lady. 

[pariann]

Feeling like BEG does is what keeps me from going out on dates with most of the men I meet.   Oh and Jason too, he would be such a 3rd wheel if I tried.

[BEG]

Well, Mr. Fishers wants to come up to see me again tonight. I told him that we could go to the local rootbeer/hotdog stand for a dinner. He said 'ok'.
Alright this is gonna be the weirdest thing - sitting in his Lexus eating a hot dog and having a rootbeer. Maybe after tonight he'll realize what I'm talking about?!?! And then maybe not. 

[pariann]

some people call stuff like that slumming. LOL   I'm just kidding.  I would love to be sitting in a car with someone eating a hot dog and having a root beer.  I've just found out I can pretty much go out with whoever I want, and there will be no third wheel.

[Sunny]

I've done worse in a Lexus.



(did I just say that out loud?)

[pariann]

I bet you have actually done "better"  LOL

[BEG]

some people call stuff like that slumming. LOL   I'm just kidding.  I would love to be sitting in a car with someone eating a hot dog and having a root beer.  I've just found out I can pretty much go out with whoever I want, and there will be no third wheel.

That's exactly what I told him on Sunday.... I told him he was slumming and needed to get back to Fishers. He said that he likes what is in Anderson. So, we'll see...... I guess. 

Anyway, sorry to read that you're able to go out without the 3rd wheel. btw... there's an available guy in Kokomo  who is looking to rescue a damsel in distress, IMO - not that you fit that cliche but he might think that you are. Dunno what he thinks anymore.... UGH!

[pariann]

No thanks.  I like him as a friend and nothing more.  I had my chance, remember? 

[BEG]

No thanks.  I like him as a friend and nothing more.  I had my chance, remember? 

I know, but second time around might just do it for ya.....

[pariann]

doubtful.  I don't think I want to date anyone at all. Going back to where I was this time last year.  Just focus on me and the kids.  Life can still be good without a man in it.  My mom's been doing it for years.

[BEG]

We (Mr Fishers & I) had another very nice date last night. We went out for wings and a pitcher of beer.    We went back to my place and watched TV and talked. We have alot more in common than I thought.
He just called me and thanked me for the wonderful evening and asked me if I'd like to go out tonight.   So, tonight I'm headed to Fishers to meet him for a date.
Dating him is really nice. We laugh and cut-up like we are teenagers.    Maybe that's because we both have teenagers - LOL
I'm looking forward to a very nice weekend with him and meeting his kids on Sunday! 

[kimmi]

Very nice BEG!  Good for you! 

My ex emailed and wanted to "do something" this weekend.  Um let me see...yeah I'm busy washing my hair!  Sunny - this is the ex you know!   

[Palehorse]

Don't discount the fact he likes what is Anderson, because I do too. So much so my wife and I decided to build our new home in Anderson! We could have easily gone to Fishers or Carmel and built, but we (I) like it here too! 
Every city/community that survives the long-haul goes through changes. Anderson is in the midst of changing. It upsets some folks, and others find it encouraging and exciting; you either roll with the changes and embrace them, or get run over by them. Your choice. . .