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Started by Palehorse, September 19, 2006, 06:55:07 AM

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Sandy Eggo

Unless you have a mutual monogamous agreement w/Cowboy then my advice would be to go. Why not?  At a bare minimum, you'd get out of the house and catch up on old gossip..take a trip down memory lane to a place/time where things were easier...and quite possibly enjoy yourself. It would feel good to get out and then you'd have something to take your mind away from wondering if you were being ignored or not.  :smile:
Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. - -Cree Indian Prophecy

"Women who strive to be equal to men lack ambitition" -- anonymous

pariann

no mutual agreement. But I would feel odd about it, especially if he calls and I'm with someone else. He would ask what I'm doing. I would tell him and then he might hang up and never call again. I wouldn't like that.  I think I'll just stay home and clean house and prepare for cooking tomorrow.  Having my dinner on Friday, and going to get as much done tomorrow as I can.
Looks like I've come full circle.

~Daisy~

If you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.
--Timothy Leary

pariann

LOL I  could..but then who would do my stuff?
Looks like I've come full circle.

~Daisy~

If you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.
--Timothy Leary

pariann

 :rant: that cowboy is screwing up, I hope he knows that :rant:
Looks like I've come full circle.

awol

i'm not taking sides here, but you seem a bit obsessive about this particular "cowboy"...

could that be why he doesn't call?
"Those who dance are considered insane by those who can't hear the music." - George Carlin

pariann

He has no clue if I'm obsessive or not.   I wait on him to call, or message.  If he doesn't text me in the morning, I text him once in the afternoon.  Then not again until he replies or the next day, as a rule.

Actually he did message me today, and he told me he wasn't sure what was bugging him, but something is.  I asked him if he wanted to quit talking and he said no.  The problem is, no explanation.  I am one of those people that just has to have one, but I won't pressure to get one.
Looks like I've come full circle.

damfast

K Parianne, because I like you, I will give you some serious advice.

Never wait around for a man.
Don't send him cute little messages.
If he says something is bugging him, but he doesnt know what it is, it really means you are bugging him and he doesnt want to tell you.
Why, because he figures if he keeps you dangling, he can call you when he needs a date for whatever.
Put that jerk out to pasture.  You are way to sweet to put up with it.
I am sure there are some really nice men out there for you to find. 
Dont waste time waiting for a jerk.
And if you are asked out in the meantime, GO.  Have some fun, let this yahoo cowboy know that you are independent, and have other friends.
Dont get me wrong, I like men. But damned if I will moon over one, or be afraid to make other plans because they "might call and get upset" Bull crap.
You will find Mr. Nice Guy.  I just know it.  Meanwhile, have a real pile of fun!

It's always darkest before the dawn.  So if you're going to steal your neighbor's newspaper, that's the time to do it.

pariann

damfast,

I already took your advice, before you even posted it. ;)
Looks like I've come full circle.

Exterminator

Arguing with Christians is like playing chess with a pigeon.  No matter how good I am at chess, the pigeon is just going to knock over the pieces, shit on the board and strut around like it's victorious.

The truth is slow, but relentless. Over time it becomes irresistible.

cachegurl

Why do some guys have to be so mean and nasty?  :mad: :'(
Dang it, I hate this job right now!
Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today.~~James Dean

followsthewolf

Ignorance and fanaticism are ravenous. They require constant feeding.

cachegurl

Yes, this morning it is....one certain guy to be exact! The one that called me as soon as I opened the office and cussed me out for doing my job, is threatening to have me fired, etc, etc. Yeh, I'm having a really wonderful day here. I wanna go home!
Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today.~~James Dean

followsthewolf

How many others (men and women) have called you with problems that you solved, and they thanked you?

Lots, I bet.

Remember them.

Not the oddball jerk that called this morning.

Ignorance and fanaticism are ravenous. They require constant feeding.