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Vents: Random Acts of Venting!

Started by Palehorse, September 19, 2006, 06:55:07 AM

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~Daisy~

If you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.
--Timothy Leary

pariann

Well he calls me "my girl" and his buddy "my guy". What am I supposed to think?
Looks like I've come full circle.

~Daisy~

If you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.
--Timothy Leary

Palehorse

 :confused:

10 hours a day working, and he spends a little time blowing off some steam and this equals gay? How?
R.I.P. - followsthewolf - You are MISSED! 4/17/2013

That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville

pariann

what's a little time?  gets off work at 2:30....comes strolling in at 7am.



and it's not that blowing off a little steam equals gay.  I've seen this buddy, HE looks gay, and 'my guy'???  What male calls his buddy 'my guy'?? Not to mention a lot of other things he says and the way he says them.  I"m not saying he is...it's just crossing my mind.  We are in a new relationship and he wants to spend all his free time and working time with this guy?   Something ain't right.
Looks like I've come full circle.

pariann

Looks like I've come full circle.

pariann

Especially when he chooses to spend the night with his buddy and NOT come home at all.   Are ya following me Palehorse?
Looks like I've come full circle.

pariann

it's another 5 hours, am I allowed to be really pissed yet?

Let me clarify something. This all started because we had a discussion on Saturday the he would not go over to his buddies house after work anymore. He would get up earlier in the day and help me out.  Watch itty bitty so I can go job hunting, or spend more time with me since he hasn't been doing that.  Everything was going to change on monday.  Yeah it changed. He woke up pissy at me and stayed that way most of the day until he went to work.  Then tuesday was better, nice out, he got up and played with itty bitty while I tried to figure out what was wrong with my car, hoping to get it started.  We had discussed stopping over at Rickers to get him some food for his dinner at work since I can't go get him and bring him home for dinner.  I guess I was wrong in assuming we would walk over there as he was going to work...because about 3, his buddy shows up to 'walk him to work'.  Uhm, excuse me, why is he allowed to change our plans, just because he shows up? Oh yeah I had something to say about that.   Then yesterday, he wakes up at noon..but stays in the bedroom for an hour and a half. I'm not going to go hang out in the bedroom.  Just a few weeks ago, he complained we spent too much time in there.  But then he comes out and tells me his buddy is coming over. Not even 5 minutes later his buddy is here.  Okay, he can come out of the bedroom for his buddy, but not for me? So I'm pissy, my house is not clean for company, I don't like company when I'm not prepared AND we had just discussed spending more time together a couple of days ago.   So I notice that the guy has his bicycle blocking my porch so no one can walk across it.  I tell him he is going to have to move his bike.  Next thing I know he just leaves, and I'm getting bitched at.  I never told him to leave, I never told Jason to tell him to leave. I said for him to move his bike.  Come to find out, he called here saying he was coming over while he was on his way, I'm sorry but I think it's rude, very rude to just think you are going to drop in on someone in a couple of minutes time and PLAN to stay until you go to work.   The guy brought his lunch!!! and Jason heated it up for him!!!  Do you think Jason has ever ONCE in the 3 months he's been here fixed me anything to eat?  pffft.  So now, it looks as if he chose his buddy over me.  What the hell does the guy have I don't?  There's only one answer to that.  NOW can I be pissed?

I hope for once I have an appropriate rant that won't get deleted.
Looks like I've come full circle.

~Daisy~

If you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.
--Timothy Leary

pariann

LOL, I'm not going hmmm....I'm just pissed and cleaning house....it's what I do when I get this mad. 
Looks like I've come full circle.

~Daisy~

Wanna come help clean up my apartment? LOL
If you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.
--Timothy Leary

pariann

you know what...if you wanna do it on saturday....I will be glad too.  I've got the girls all weekend and I don't want to spend all of it here cleaning my house, with them in the way.
Looks like I've come full circle.

Palehorse

R.I.P. - followsthewolf - You are MISSED! 4/17/2013

That which fails to kill me. . .should run!

Any "point" made by one that lacks credibility, is only as useful as toilet paper; and serves the same purpose. ~ Palehorse 4/22/2017

May you find charity when it is needed, and the ability to extend it when it is not. ~Palehorse 7/4/2012

To the last, I grapple with thee; From Hell's heart, I stab at thee; For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee.~Herman Melville

~Daisy~

Not sure. They are delivering as we speak in Denver, then taking a load to Kansas City. Plus, Aaron has driven all night and is very tired, but needs to get out of Denver before they get stuck. He said he's going to try to stay ahead of the storm, but find a place to snooze for a few hours.
If you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.
--Timothy Leary

damfast

Pariann,
Kick his sorry carcass to the curb.
Why would you want to have a loser like that hang around????
Let him go stay with his friend. Put his crap in a trash bag and send him off.
If my car didnt work, you can bet your bottom dollar that I would not be making plans for a buffoon like that to have "dinner at work"  unless his butt was out there helping me fix it, or calling the tow truck to take it to the shop.
And when his friend comes over, meet him at the door, tell him it is a bad time for you, that you werent warned ahead of time that he was coming.  Tell him to let you know next time so you can be ready.  then tell lover boy to make plans with you before an invitation to his friends. 
Dont expect him to watch your kids, hire a sitter, join a co-op, do whatever you need to do to get child care.  If he is a creep, how do you know what is happening while you arent there?
And stop being so easy to abuse.  I dont know if I should hug you or yell at you.
It's always darkest before the dawn.  So if you're going to steal your neighbor's newspaper, that's the time to do it.