bad day for photos...

[jazzer100]

Inside select men is a creature who will grope, fondle and say innappropriate things to the women that love it

[Bo D]

In reponse to Bo D Huh??????

Sorry, Dude. Got the name wrong. After all, it's been a long time, Leisure Suit Larry.....

[jazzer100]

Fireguy I like the way you think

[pariann]

but, what really is inappropriate?

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Anything that we women find offends us.

[~vxn~]

Anything that we women find offends us.

what pari said.  and also, i think that "innappropriate" is subjective.  depends on who is doing the conversing and how well the parties know one another. 

one girl's innappropriate is another girl's appropriate.   

[Bo D]

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Anything that we women find offends us.

what pari said.  and also, i think that "innappropriate" is subjective.  depends on who is doing the conversing and how well the parties know one another. 

one girl's innappropriate is another girl's appropriate.   

And this is why I guess I will never totally understand women. 

I would have thought that jazzer dude's comments were totally out of line and inappropriate.


Oh, well.......excuse me........

[pariann]

I thought they were too. I think that unless jazzer knows vxn, or has been a long time poster and has built up some kind of repetoire with her, his very first post to this forum was out of line. 

If someone I'm familiar with said the part about a leash and training to me, it would be inappropriate, no matter how well I knew them and face to face, they would probably get hit.

[jazzer100]

Pari

I think you believe in double standards and that women can say what they like but not men. Look at your tag line men adapt, women train. you also state that if a man said something offesive to you you might hit him but I bet if you said something offensive to a man you would not expect him to hit you thus a double standard.

[pariann]

I wouldn't  say anything offensive to a man. I never have that I'm aware of, and I don't intend to start.  Just exactly where do you get this notion that I believe in double standards?   And my 'tag line' happens to be a quote that someone else said that I was amused by.

[Exterminator]

And this is why I guess I will never totally understand women. 

So why try; isn't it enough to enjoy the fascination?  When in doubt, be polite and charming.

I would have thought that jazzer dude's comments were totally out of line and inappropriate.

Indeed and the rebuttal was friendly and tactful.

[pariann]

The difference between a mature person and someone: BPD.

[Bo D]

So why try; isn't it enough to enjoy the fascination?  When in doubt, be polite and charming.

Indeed and the rebuttal was friendly and tactful.

True...very true.

And while the rebuttal from the ladies was indeed "friendly and tactful" I'm afraid mine wasn't.

[~vxn~]

I would have thought that jazzer dude's comments were totally out of line and inappropriate.

and they were.  quite.  i do not know him, he does not know me. 

i do not like when little boys assume a girl "looks like the type to like it a certain way".  i don't know what kinda girls you been looking at... but i am in no way the type who likes to be disrespected. 

[pariann]

~CC high 5's vxn "we go girls!"~

[~vxn~]

indeed, indeed. 

time to go to the bar and make men feel uncomfortable by assuming things about them.  "say, he looks like the kinda guy who'd like to get kicked in the biscuits."  lol...